A young man with the physical build of a strong college football lineman shared openly with a stranger the many good things that are happening in his life. There’s no hiding in his voice the sense of pride at reporting that he’s been holding a steady full-time job for the past two years and recently settled into his own apartment. “I’ve been in programs since I was 8,” said 24-year old Cam, who agreed to speak to The Times on the condition that his last name be withheld.