My husband and I started fostering more than five year ago. I never imagined how fostering would become such a part of my identity. May is national foster care awareness month, and last year I posted a series of “moments in foster” on social media. This year, I have a bigger audience, and I hope the messy, beautiful, terrifying world that is foster care touches you, too. If you want to help, ask me how. Not everyone can foster, but everyone can do something.