As regular readers of this column know, my advice tends toward the "psychologically incorrect" end of the spectrum.

As a consequence, I frequently receive anecdotes from parents who solved their children’s behavior problems by thinking outside the box.

For example, a mother recently wrote me, hoping her story would help other parents whose kids know how to use the toilet, but refuse to use it for bowel movements. When it came time for a poop, her toddler would go off and hide.

She writes, "We tried every reward and punishment we could think of, but to no avail. Then, my father suggested that we had yet to find the one thing that mattered most to our son. Dad said it would have to be something he loved most in the world.

"I knew what that was, so the next time he pooped in his pants, I threw his beloved Mr. Bunny (his favorite stuffed animal since birth) in the top of his closet, telling him he would get it back when he started pooping in the potty. I felt like the cruelest mother in the world, mind you, and sure enough, he screamed bloody murder. But I held my ground.

"The next time he had what you call an ‘on purpose,’ I tossed his blankie (his next most favorite thing) in the closet. He screamed like he was being tortured, but he never pooped in his pants again. My dad’s pretty wise, don’t you think?"

Yes, I do. Is he interested in ghost-writing some columns for me?

Another mother shares how she solved her 4-year-old son’s fear of the dark and fear of being left alone.

He would not go into dark areas of the house, although he knew how to turn on lights, and he would constantly follow his mother around the house, driving her more than slightly bonkers in the process.

"He even wanted to come into the bathroom with me when I needed to use the toilet," she writes. Finally, Mom put her son on my celebrated "Three Strikes, You’re Out!" program. He was penalized a strike every time he followed her, refused to follow an instruction that required going into a darkened area of the home or acted fearful in any way.

The first two strikes of the day were free, but the third resulted in him spending the rest of the day in his well-lit room and going to bed one hour early. Mom reports that it took three days for him to bring his fears under control.